Learning to Pray from Jesus, Seventeenth Sunday (C), July 28, 2019

Fr. Roger J. Landry
Saint Sylvester Parish, Medford, NY
Seventeenth Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year C
July 28, 2019
Gen 18:20-32, Ps 138, Col 2:12-14, Lk 11:1-13

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The following text guided today’s homily: 

Jesus’ surpassingly attractive prayer

Last Sunday the Church had us focus on Jesus’ praising Mary of Bethany for choosing “the better part,” “the one thing necessary in life,” in sitting at his feet allowing herself to be nourished by him instead of getting anxious and worried, as Martha did, about many of the less important details of hospitality. Today the Church seeks to reinforce that lesson with regard to how each of us prioritizes similar time being fed by God in prayer.

There’s a startling aspect to the request Jesus’ disciple in the Gospel, “Lord, teach us to pray.” On its face, it seems like a straightforward-enough petition, but when one understands well the context in which it would have been asked, it would be similar to Aaron Judge’s asking someone to teach him how to catch a pop fly. The Jewish disciples of Jesus already should have been experts on prayer. The whole of what we call today the Old Testament was one long instruction on how to pray. We see Abraham praying in the first reading. Several times we see Moses climb Mount Sinai or enter the Tent with the Ark of the Covenant to converse with God. The 150 psalms were prayers the Jews sung over and over, with inspired words put on their lips to praise and thank God, to beg forgiveness, to ask for specific things for themselves or for others. We see Samson praying before the Philistines, the Prophet Elijah praying on Mt. Carmel in a showdown versus the priests of Ba’al, Queen Esther praying to save the life of her fellow Jews in Babylon. The books of the prophets all contain explicit examples of prayer. The wisdom literature shares the fruit of much prayer and is the source of deep contemplation on the mysteries of God. The history of the Jews and the whole Hebrew Bible was a school of prayer. Yet Jesus’ disciples, fully educated in that school, knew that there was something different about Jesus’ prayer that they hadn’t picked up from the rabbis in the synagogues or the levitical priests in the Temple. His example of prayer — going off to the desert, heading up on a mountain, stealing a corner in a garden, often spending all night — enticed them to ask him to teach them his secret. Implicitly they knew that the type of prayer to which God was calling them was more than merely making some time for God, more than just reflecting on the Torah or putting the sacred words of the Psalms on their lips. So they turned to Jesus to ask him to teach them this special art, and Jesus didn’t let them down. And today we are here to learn from the same Master.

A Trinitarian prayer able to fill one’s life

One cannot exaggerate the importance of prayer in a life that’s truly and fully Christian. St. John Paul II, in his 2001 Pastoral Plan for the Church in the new millennium, said, “Prayer cannot be taken for granted. We have to learn to pray: as it were learning this art ever anew from the lips of the Divine Master himself, like the first disciples: ‘Lord, teach us to pray!’” He went on to emphasize what happens if we don’t learn that art. “It would be wrong to think,” he said, “that ordinary Christians can be content with a shallow prayer that is unable to fill their whole life. Especially in the face of the many trials to which today’s world subjects faith, they would be not only mediocre Christians but ‘Christians at risk.’ They would run the insidious risk of seeing their faith progressively undermined, and would perhaps end up succumbing to the allure of ‘substitutes,’ accepting alternative religious proposals and even indulging in far-fetched superstitions,” something we see when Catholics drift away from the faith because they were often not finding God, not entering into intimate existential dialogue with Him, through the practice of their faith. So St. John Paul said, “It is therefore essential that education in prayer should become in some way a key-point” of everything the Church does, because “Learning this Trinitarian shape of Christian prayer and living it fully, above all in the liturgy … but also in personal experience, is the secret of a truly vital Christianity” (NMI 32-34). For our faith to be truly alive, we must learn from Christ how to pray to the Father by the power of the Holy Spirit. Basically our spiritual life will be worth what our prayer is worth.

As we turn to Jesus today and humbly ask him to teach us how to pray well, we see that he teaches us in four ways.

Jesus’ example of prayer

The first is by his own contagious example of prayer. In today’s Gospel, we read that “Jesus was praying in a certain place.” Jesus was constantly praying and it was this personal example of prayer that precipitated the disciples’ question for him to teach them. Jesus by his own witness showed how important prayer is. If Jesus, who is God, prayed so much, then he is instructing us by example the priority that prayer must have in the life of each of us who is not God. Sometimes people will say, “But I’m too busy to find the time to pray.” Jesus was far busier than any of us. The crowds were constantly following him, bringing their sick and lame, hunting him down in houses and as soon as he got off of boats. Despite all of the pressing work of preaching and healing, Jesus was always stealing away time to pray. In this, as in all things, he teaches by example and then says, no matter how busy we are, “Come, follow me!”

Jesus’ own prayers

The second way Jesus educates us in the Trinitarian shape of Christian prayer is through his own prayers recorded in Sacred Scripture, which manifested a quantum leap over the way of prayer faithful Jews would have been taught in Old Testament times. Jesus revealed that prayer was to be filial, the prayer of beloved son or a daughter, to a Father who loves his child with great affection. In the Old Testament mentality, God was regarded as so awesome, transcendent and distant that the great intimacy and loving reciprocity that God desires to have with us was not always apparent. Jesus came to reveal the Father’s face and to help us to turn to him as a beloved child. We see this in the prayers of Jesus that are recorded in the Gospel. Every one features an intimate, confident, loving address to his Father. “I thank you Father, Lord of heaven of earth, because you have hidden these things from the wise and the intelligent and have revealed them to infants; yes, Father, for such was your gracious will!” (Mt 11:25-26), he says on one occasion. “Father, I thank you for having heard me. I know that you always hear me” (Jn 11:41), he says on another. There are many other examples: “Father, the hour has come; glorify your Son so that the Son may glorify you” (Jn 17:1). “Father, forgive them for they know not what they do” (Lk 23:34). “Father, into your hands I commend my spirit” (Lk 23:46). We also see that Jesus’ prayer to the Father was never a mere conversation for the sake of a conversation. It wasn’t just “wasting time with God.” His prayer always had a purpose: to help him to embody ever more the Father’s will and conform himself to it. Jesus prayed in the Garden of Gethsemane, “Father, not my will, but yours, be done” (Lk 22:42). His whole life was a prayer to do the Father’s will perfectly. “I have come down from heaven,” he said elsewhere, summarizing his mission, “not to do my own will, but the will of him who sent me” (Jn 6:38). By the example of his own prayer, Jesus came to reveal to us the true purpose of our prayer and our life. Prayer is to seek the Father’s will, to come to know it (“for he who seeks, finds”), to embrace it and love it, and to love it so much that we burn to do it. Our prayer is meant to help us know God our Father better, to love him more deeply as a beloved child, and to grow to love him so much that His will becomes our will.

The proper dispositions of prayer

The third way Jesus responded to the petition “Lord, teach us how to pray” was by instructing the disciples and us the different virtues and characteristics of someone who prays well. Two of those essential attributes he reveals to us in today’s Gospel.

He first taught us explicitly (as he did by his example above) that to pray well, we have to pray as a beloved Son by the power of the Holy Spirit. “Is there anyone among you who, if your child asks for a fish, will give a snake instead of a fish? Or if the child asks for an egg, will give a scorpion? If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!” Just like a child trusts that his earthly parents will not give her something poisonous when she asks for something good, so we’re called to trust in our Heavenly Father that he will give us something even better. Jesus says he will give the Holy Spirit — he will give Himself —to those who ask him, with all the Spirit’s gifts. He will help us to pray, for, as St. Paul tells us, “we do not know how to pray as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes with inexpressible groanings” (Rom 8:26), and he intercedes not just by putting words on our lips but by changing who we are as we pray, by helping us to pray as beloved sons and daughters of God. “God has sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, crying, ‘Abba! Father!’”(Gal 4:6).

Jesus likewise teaches us to pray with perseverance, as Abraham did in the first reading. Jesus uses the analogy of a next-door neighbor’s banging on the door at night to borrow three loaves of bread to extend hospitality to a late-arriving guest. The point of the analogy was that if a friend would eventually get out of bed and give what was requested not because of goodness but simply to get the neighbor off his back, how much more readily will the Father in Heaven who is goodgive what is requested by those children whom he loves. Jesus tells us to keep knocking on the door, to keep asking, to keep seeking, because the Father will open the door. If he loves us so much, we might ask, why doesn’t he open the door and respond to our prayers immediately? As many of the great saints have taught us, the reason is to purify our desires from asking for something we might not need, to build up gratitude to God who responds lest we become spiritual spoiled brats, and most importantly so that we might learn the virtue of perseverance through our prayer so that we might persevere in faith through life.

In the other parts of the Gospel, he tells us much more about the proper dispositions of the one who prays well. He teaches us about praying with humility in the Parable of the Pharisee and Publican (Lk 18:10-14). He teaches us about not praying for show, to gain the praise of others, but to pray to our Father in secret (Mt 6:4-5). He instructs us about praying simply and directly trusting in God, not heaping up empty phrases (Mt 6:7-8). He tells us that prayer requires a true conversion of heart, and we have to reconcile with our brothers and sisters before we come to pray, because if our heart is hardened toward others, we can’t receive what God wants to give us (Mt 5:23). He teaches us to pray in his name, promising, “If you ask anything of the Father in my name, he will give it to you” (Jn 16:23-24). And he pray teaches us to pray for the most important thing of all: “Strive first for the kingdom of God and his righteousness,” he tells us, and everything else we need — food, drink, clothing, shelter — “will be given to you as well” (Mt 6:31-33).

The Our Father

This last disposition leads us directly to the fourth and final way Jesus taught us how to pray: the prayer he gives us in today’s Gospel, what Christian tradition has called the Lord’s prayer. In giving us the words of the Our Father in response to the disciple’s request to teach them how to pray, Jesus was doing far more than merely teaching us a “magic formula” and ritualistic “open sesame!” for us to follow rigidly. We know this because the words of the Our Father we have in today’s Gospel from St. Luke are different and briefer than the words found in St. Matthew’s Gospel, which is the version of the Our Father we’re accustomed to pray. Rather Jesus was teaching us about the types of things we should desire and the sequence of things we should pray for. He was giving us proper longings and the proper order of longings that should constitute our prayer. He helped us to focus on God, on hallowing his name rather than making a name for ourselves, on his kingdom’s coming rather than our building one for ourselves, on his will’s being done rather than our pretending we’re God and doing our own thing. This shows us that prayer is not fundamentally about changing God’s plans, but changing our own to align themselves to what God has ordered for our and others’ eternal good and happiness. And that’s why I’ve always loved the introduction to the Our Father we have at Mass — “we dare to say” — in which we focus on the courage we need to pray these words. It takes a certain heroism, a great trust, to pray for God’s will to be done over our own, but Jesus teaches us to pray with that holy daring. After we have that order set, then he teaches us to ask for things for ourselves and others that we really need. Notice he doesn’t instruct us to ask for a Red Corvette, or a svelte figure, or a mansion on the beach. He essentializes our needs. First he tells us to ask each day for our daily bread, what we need to survive, knowing that God will not forget about our needs tomorrow. He tells us to ask for the grace of being forgiven and becoming like God in forgiving others. He has us pray that we not fall when tempted — because we will face temptations just like Jesus did, but we know that we will not face temptations alone, that he will be there to strengthen us — and that the Father will deliver us from the evil one with his Fatherly protection in this world and forever. Those seven things — first God’s holy name, kingdom and will, and then what we need to survive, forgiveness, strength in temptation and deliverance from sin, evil and the devil — are things Jesus teaches about which we should be regularly be conversing with God in the lifeblood of Christian life we call prayer.

Praying the Mass

“Lord, teach us to pray.” Today we come with that request and Jesus once teaches us. He wants us not to be mediocre Christians but saints. He wants us not to have a shallow prayer and spiritual life but a deep one, capable of filling our entire life. He wants us not only to be become good students in the school of prayer we call the Church, but his teaching assistants, as we pass on to others the open secret of a truly vital Christianity. And now we turn to the culmination of Christian prayer, which St. John Paul II said we need to learn to pray “above all,” namely, the Mass. We know that Jesus’ greatest prayer was the one he said from the Upper Room and the Cross as he was preparing to save us, the prayer into which we enter live in time whenever we celebrate the liturgy. It’s here at Mass that we enter into his own filial petition to the Father. It’s here that we pray with perseverance, in his name, having reconciled with him and others. It’s here that we seek the glorification of his name, the coming of his kingdom, the doing of his will, as we do this in his memory. It’s here that he gives us something far greater than our daily material bread: the true Living Bread come down from heaven that gives life to the world (Jn 6:51). It’s here that he strengthens us for the test, fortifies us to forgive, and bolsters us against the wiles of the evil one. And so let us turn as beloved sons and daughters with Jesus to God the Father and ask him, with all the dispositions about praying well that Jesus revealed, to send the Holy Spirit to teach us how to pray this Mass together with Jesus so that our whole life may turn into a continual extension of this prayer, and we may be his missionaries helping the whole world to learn the art of prayer and enter deeply into the most important thing a human being can ever do.

The readings for today’s Mass were: